Kusamalira odwala pangozi kapena kupulumutsa thandizo?

Kusankha pakati pa chisamaliro cha wodwala mmoyo woopsya ndi kupeŵa ngozi kudikirira thandizo ndilosavuta kukumana nthawi zonse. Anthu ochita zowonongeka ali okonzeka kuthana ndi vuto lililonse, koma ayenera kuthana ndi chitetezo chawo.

Lero tikufotokozera zomwe zinachitikira mkazi wa zaka 26 amene amakhala ndi kugwira ntchito kummwera chakumwera kwa Mexico monga Advanced EMT /Paramedic. Pakalipano, amagwira ntchito m'dera lodzidzimutsa ndipo anzakewo amalemekeza kwambiri komanso amamuteteza. Nkhaniyi ikugwirizana ndi zomwe wodwalayo amachita.

 

Kusamalira odwala pangozi pangozi ya moyo: mlandu

Ndimasankha mlanduwu pazifukwa ziwiri; Ndikuganiza kuti sindinali wokonzeka kuchita china chonga ichi (ndinali ndi chidziwitso chochepa m'munda) ndipo ndinapezeka kuti ndili pakati pa zovuta chisamaliro choleza mtima ndi chiopsezo chathu chitetezo, kapena kuthana ndi gulu losinthika komanso losautsa.

Ndinali wodzipereka kuderalo Mexican Red Cross. Zinachitika m'dera linalake mumzinda umene sindinkadziŵa. Zonse zomwe ndinamva kuchokera kwa bwenzi langa ndizoti munthu wochokera ku boma la municipalities adaitanidwa. Kotero zinali ngati zovuta kuti ayankhule ... kapena chinachake chonga icho. Izo zinachitika mu 2008.

Kotero ife tinkayenera kuti tiyankhe maitanidwe okhudza munthu yemwe wagunda ndipo sangathe kusunthira. Ndiwo onse opanga ma wailesi anati. Titafika kumeneko panali gulu lozungulira wodwalayo, ndipo ambiri a iwo analikulira komanso kutisamalira, akutiuza kuti tatenga nthawi yochuluka kuti tifike ndikukhala okwiya pamene masekondiwo adadutsa. Titawona khamu la anthu tinayesera kulankhulana nawo koma sitinayankhe. Panthawiyi sitinkadziwa wina aliyense koma ife (mzanga ndi ine) tikhoza kutithandiza kapena kudziteteza tokha.

Wodwala anali atagona pansi popanda malaya, pamutu wapamwamba akufuula "zimapweteka kwambiri". Ndinalumikizana naye, mwamuna wamwamuna wa zaka 30 yemwe anati wina am'menya ndi mfuti ya mpira pamutu, pachifuwa ndi kumbuyo. Panalibe magazi aliwonse pansi kapena chilonda chowonekera. Nditamuyang'ana mofulumira, bambo wina wachikulire anandiuza kuti ali m'boma la boma ndipo adalankhula ndi woyang'anira wa Red Cross, ndipo adamutsimikizira kuti timapita naye kuchipatala, ndipo ndinamuyankha ife tinali kugwira ntchito pa izo.

Zinali zovuta kupita kwa wodwalayo popeza kunali masana ndipo malowo sanali abwino. Komanso, khamulo lidali laphokoso kotero ndidaganiza zopita naye ku ambulansi ndikuchita ntchito yathu kumeneko. Ndinali ndikuwunika wodwalayo mwatsatanetsatane, koma sindinapeze chilichonse choopsa kapena moyo wowopseza, wodwalayo anali wochepetsetsa koma adakali wokwiya, ndipo ngakhale adayika manja ake kumbuyo kwa mutu wake, ndinauza mnzanga kuti asatseke zipewa monga izi sizinali vuto lachangu, ndi chomwechonso.

Pamene ndimayang'ana ndikumufunsa wodwala, ndimayika ndodo ya magazi kumanja kwake kumanzere. Ndinamuuza zomwe ndikuchita ndipo ndinalakwitsa kumuuza kuti "chikho chidzafalikira / kukanika pamanja", ndipo ndinanena izi kwa wodwala aliyense. Mwinamwake, nditangoyamba kukweza chikho, adafuula mokweza kuti ndikumupweteka. Anayika dzanja lake lamanja pampando ndikuyesera kundimenya koma ndinagwira dzanja. Ndinayesetsa kumuletsa ndikumuuza kuti ndikuyesera kuthandiza.

Ndiye ine ndinamufunsa ngati iye ali ndi chinachake choti adye, kapena kumwa; ndipo anawunika ophunzira ake, koma adatseka maso ake ndipo adandiuza kuti sindikumudziwa kanthu kenaka ndikuwonjezera kuti ndinali muvuto lalikulu chifukwa amalume ake anali mbali ya "Los Zetas" cartel ndipo amandizindikiritsa mosavuta tsopano. Ndinamuseka moona mtima ndikumuuza kuti azikhazikika pansi pomwe sindinali kuchita choipa chilichonse ndipo ngati sakanafuna thandizo lathu, angakane chirichonse kuchokera kwa ife. Anati "ndi udindo wanu kuti mukhale nane", ndinayankha "ayi" ndipo adayesanso kundigunda ndikudandaulira mnzanga kuti andithandize ndipo adafunsa zomwe zinachitika.

Ndimatha kunena kuti mnyamatayo anali wachiwawa ndipo sindingathe kumuthandiza. Kotero mzanga wapanga kayendedwe kowala: Anasala mofulumira kupita ku nyumba yosungiramo apolisi ndipo tinamufotokozera zomwe zinachitika. Iwo adatithandiza ife ndikumusunga, tinachoka kumbali yathu.

Ndinapempha thandizo kwa mnzanga koma ndinaganiza chinthu china: kutsegula ambulansi ndipo anangomusiya mnyamatayo m'misewu. Zitatha izi, ndinadziwa kuti izi zingakhale zovuta kwa ife. Ndinali pavuto pakati pa kukhala wodekha ndi wodwalayo ndikuyesera kuthetsa vutoli, kapena kukhala wokwiya ngati iye ndikungomuchotsa mu ambulansi. Ndinaganiza zongondiletsa kuti asandipweteke ndikudikirira kufikira titafika apolisi. Ine ndi mnzangayo tinkakhala chete monga momwe tingathere, ndipo tinayesetsa kuchita zabwino kwambiri kwa ife. Tinalumikizana ndi maziko koma tangokhala ndi lipoti lathu ndipo sitinapange kanthu kena, ndikutanthauza, ngakhale ngakhale woyang'anira adayankhula nafe za izi, anatsimikizira kapena anakana kuti adachita chiyanjano ndi munthu yemwe adaitana. Tinangopitirizabe kugwira ntchito / kudzipereka ngati palibe chomwe chinachitika. Palibe njira zothetsera nokha kusokonezeka maganizo kapena chirichonse, ngakhale ngakhale njira zotetezera kwa antchito.

 

Analysis

Moona mtima, sitinadziwe ngati panali milandu yofananira mdera lino, koma m'mizinda yonse ngati iyi ndizofala kwambiri. Ndikutanthauza, monga anthu akuyitanitsa ambulansi ndipo akuyembekeza kuti ndi udindo wathu kupezeka kwa aliyense amene waledzera, wamwa / wamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo, wamakani. Monga tikadakhala apolisi, kokha chifukwa adavulala kapena china chake. Ndipo ndikudziwa kuti tiyenera kutero tikamayankhula za zomwe zimawopseza moyo, koma osati pomwe adangovulala pang'ono kapena magazi chifukwa chankhondo.

Pakupita kwa zaka, ndaphunzira momwe ndingagwiritsire ntchito pangozi. Sindinakonzekere izi kusukulu, ndikuganiza zochitika m'munda ndi zomwe zimandipangitsa kuphunzira ndi kuchita. Izi zinakhudza ubwino wautumiki m'njira zambiri. Ndikuganiza kuti sindinakhale ndi chidaliro chochepa ndi odwala omwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo / mowa ndipo tsopano ndimakonda kuchita zinthu zowatetezera komanso zowopsa ndikapita kwa odwala omwe ali ndi mkwiyo. Ndikudziwa kuti ndiyenera kusintha izi ndikusiyana ndi odwala onse monga awa, koma ndi zovuta tsopano. Mexico si malo otetezeka, makamaka kwa amayi, kotero muyenera kukhala osamala komanso osakhulupirira wina lero.

 

Chisamaliro cha odwala: ndibwino kudikirira thandizo?

Pambuyo pamavuto amtunduwu, ndidasintha zina zingapo zomwe ndimachita. Momwe ndimadzidziwikitsa ndikudziyandikira wodwala / ozolowera / munthu. Red Cross yaku Mexico idachita izi monga “Kutetezedwa Pabwino” komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zizindikiro kulikonse, kupewa zida amatha kuwoneka ngati ankhondo / apolisi ndipo nthawi zonse amauza anthu omwe tili kuti tithandizire ndipo ali omasuka kukana chithandizo kapena kusamutsa.

Tsopano nthawi iliyonse tikakumana ndi ngozi, timakonda kupempha apolisi / gulu lankhondo tisanalowe m'malo. Sindinanene kuti ndikuvutika maganizo pambuyo pa izi. Ndikuganiza kuti izi zimandipangitsa kukhala wamphamvu koma tsopano ndikudalira zochepa mwa anthu kaya ndikugwira ntchito kapena ayi. Tsopano ndikuyesera kukhala otetezeka tsiku ndi tsiku, kulikonse. Ndaphunzira kulongosola kwa akuluakulu ovomerezeka za chiopsezo musanachitepo, ziribe kanthu. Nthawi zonse ndi bwino kugwira ntchito limodzi ndi apolisi kapena ankhondo, ndipo nthawi zonse amakhalapo kuti atithandize. Timathandizana wina ndi mnzake. "

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